what to do if parents find dildo

As someone who works with teenagers, one of the questions I get asked all the time is ‘What do I do if my parents find my dildo?’. Well, I’m going to tell you what I think you should do, and how you should handle the situation.

First of all, try to stay cool and calm. It is easy to get worked up when your parents find out something about you that you didn’t plan on them seeing, but try not to freak out. Even though you may be embarrassed or scared, try to put those feelings aside and focus on the problem at hand.

The next step is to prepare yourself for the conversation. You may not know how your parents are going to react, but it is important to be ready for whatever they might say. I suggest you sit down and think about how you are going to explain why you have a dildo and how it is used.

From there, I think it would be best to have a conversation with your parents in a non-confrontational way. Explain why you have the dildo and what it is used for. Be honest and open and don’t be afraid to ask questions. A lot of parents may not understand why you have a dildo and may have some misconceptions about what it is. It’s important to educate them and set the record straight.

Finally, try to look at the situation from their perspective. A lot of parents may be confused or upset that their child has a dildo, but you can make it a learning moment for everyone. Try to have an open conversation with your parents and make sure that they understand that you are a mature and responsible person, and that your dildo is being used in a responsible and respectful way.

In conclusion, while it might be a difficult situation if your parents find out about your dildo, it is important to stay calm and educate them. This could even be turned into a positive experience where you come to understand each other better. However, if you think that the conversation is not going anywhere productive, it may be best to look for help from an outside source, such as a therapist or counselor.

Ok, now that we got that out of the way, let’s expand on the topic. One of the main issues that may be confronted when dealing with this subject is the stigma associated with having a dildo. Society has a tendency to stigmatize anything that has to do with sexuality, and unfortunately, dildos are no exception. Of course, in reality, there is nothing wrong with having a dildo and using it responsibly. That being said, it is important to remember that not everyone may feel the same way, which can make it difficult for someone who has a dildo to come out and talk about it.

Another challenge is finding a way to explain the dildo to those who may not understand it. As I mentioned earlier, a lot of parents may have some misconceptions about dildos. This can make it difficult for a person to explain themselves without being judged or having those misconceptions reinforced. Fortunately, there are plenty of resources available online, and many organizations dedicated to educating people about dildos and other sex toys.

Furthermore, there is the issue of finding a place to store the dildo so that it is easily accessible but not visible to others. This can be particularly challenging if the person lives with family and friends. One solution is to purchase a lockable box or bag. This allows the individual to keep their dildo out of sight and locked away safely.

The next step is to purchase the right kind of dildo. Purchasing a dildo without doing proper research into the material or the shape can be a disaster, as the wrong type of dildo can cause injury or discomfort. Fortunately, there are plenty of resources online that explain the pros and cons of different dildos. Additionally, many sex shops or online retailers have knowledgeable staff who are happy to answer any questions that a person may have.

Finally, it is important to discuss safety, hygiene, and proper usage of a dildo. This should include topics such as cleaning the dildo, using lubrication, and never sharing it with anyone else. It is also important to remind the person using the dildo to listen to their body and never push themselves beyond their comfort zone.

Overall, when it comes to parents finding out about their child’s dildo, it is important to remember to remain calm and collected. From there, it is essential to be honest and to make sure that everyone is comfortable with the discussion. Most importantly, it is important to educate others and ensure that safety, hygiene, and proper usage is addressed. Together, these steps can help ensure that the experience is one that is handled with respect and maturity.