Verbal masturbation – now there’s a term I hadn’t heard before! I started doing some research and boy did I learn a thing or two. Male verbal masturbation is basically when a man indulges in a sustained and detailed description of his most desired fantasies or sexual desires or when he tells a story that is so exaggerated it borders on fiction. It’s like a build-up, a form of erotic mental stimulation, something that will get his partner going.
My first experience with this was in high school, when I was young, naive, and a little bit rebellious. I had a relationship with a girl in my class and we had a lot of sexual conversations, but she started growing tired of them and eventually she started to talk less and less. She had been my first and only experience with talking like that.
So, me being the immature fool I was back then, decided I should to start verbally masturbating. I went on about things that sounded fantastic to me and that I thought she wanted to hear. And well, let’s just say, she was not thrilled. I had no idea what I had done wrong until she finally broke it off.
It wasn’t until I got a little older and wiser that I actually realized what verbal masturbation was. It was then that I started to understand how it could be used as a form of communication between couples that could be both intriguing and exciting. It was then that I learned that verbal masturbation doesn’t always have to be about sex toys, it can be about anything you both find interesting and it can bring you closer together. For instance, you can talk about your dreams, life experiences, hopes and dreams, anything that connects the two of you.
That being said, there is still a very fine line between verbal masturbation and telling a story that is over-exaggerated, and you have to be careful to stay on the right side of it. Not only that, but you also have to make sure you are aware of your partner’s comfort level and boundaries before you plunge in and start talking. You don’t want to make your partner uncomfortable or put too much pressure on them to respond in a certain way.
The best thing to do is talk to your partner about it first, be honest about your thoughts and feelings. Make sure your partner is on the same page and that your expectations are in line with what they are willing to do. And of course, always have respect for each other. After all, verbal masturbation should be about getting closer to each other in a way that feels safe and comfortable for both of you.
Now that I’ve been able to put my experiences into words and share them with you, vibrators I’d love to hear your thoughts. Do you think verbal masturbation can be an effective form of communication between couples or do you think it should be avoided altogether? Let me know what you think in the comments below.
In addition to my own thoughts and experiences, I also want to share what I have learned about the various types of verbal masturbation. One type is called “fantasy talk” and it involves two partners discussing a fantasy they both share. This sort of verbal masturbation can help to bring couples closer together and can even be used as foreplay. Another type of verbal masturbation is called “sexual storytelling”, which is when two partners create a narrative of their sex life in order to explore their shared desires. This type of play can also be used as foreplay and can help both partners to better understand one another.
Finally, there is also “dirty talk”. This type of verbal masturbation involves two partners using explicit language to describe their desires or fantasies. This can help to both increase arousal and to increase intimacy between them. While this type of play may be a bit more risqué, it can still be a great way for couples to connect.
There are so many ways for couples to explore verbal masturbation. Whether you’re exploring fantasies, creating stories, or engaging in some dirty talk, it can be a great way to engage with your partner and to increase the level of intimacy and arousal between you. But as always, it’s important to make sure everyone is on the same page and that no one is getting uncomfortable.