My daughter recently got her driver’s license and she was so excited to show it off. We decided to take a drive to the mall, and on the way we talked about all sorts of things. Nothing could have prepared me for what she said next – she wanted to check out one of those male sex dolls! I was so shocked that I think my jaw hit the floor.
I hesitated for a few moments before I said anything. All I could think was, “This is my daughter!” She kept talking about how all her friends had been raving about these doll’s ‘cocks’ and how awesome they felt. She had money saved up from her summer job and she wanted to try one herself. My heart was racing – I had no idea what to do!
After a few more moments of deliberation, I realized there was no way she was going to change her mind. I had to face the fact that my daughter was going to ride a male sex toys doll ‘cock’. But as she headed inside, I started to think about it in a different way.
I remembered the talks I had had with her about consent, and how important it was to always respect someone else’s boundaries, even when things got heated in the bedroom. Wasn’t this doll capable of giving her pleasure without violating any boundaries? Maybe this experience could actually be a positive thing for her.
I decided to take a deep breath and let go of my fears. I agreed to go with her and buy a male/female sex doll. She was thrilled and couldn’t wait to get home and ride it. When we arrived back at the house, I watched as she carefully set the toy up in her bedroom and tried it out.
To my surprise, the experience wasn’t nearly as weird as I thought it would be. My daughter actually seemed more relaxed and confident – it seemed like she had really learned something from this experience.
I may not have been comfortable with the idea of my daughter riding a doll at first, but I’m glad I let go of that fear. It was a good reminder that everyone’s experiences can be different, and that sometimes it’s worth stepping out of our comfort zones to learn something new. Who knows – maybe my daughter’s next experience will be different, and just as interesting!